Couple sharing a glass of wine at sunset in a Long Island vineyard

Curated Collection · 24 estates

Date Night Wineries
on Long Island

24 tasting rooms that hold up for two — seated flights, vineyard porches, a bluff over the Sound, and house rules that keep the party bus in the parking lot. 22 on the North Fork, 2 in the Hamptons, each with its reservation cap and pet rule spelled out.

Built for two, not for a bus

A romantic winery is not the one with the best wine — it is the one that will not seat a bachelorette party at the next table. Every room here pours at a table or a small bar, has a view or a garden worth staying in, and keeps a house rule that protects both: quiet barns in Cutchogue and on Oregon Road, the one bluff room above the Sound, a rosé-only garden in Southold, two estates out in the Hamptons. Plan two stops rather than five — a seated flight runs about 90 minutes and $20 to $40 a person, and most of these rooms sell the cheese board instead of letting you bring one. If the day is really a group, the group outings list is the one that takes a bus.

North Fork

West to east — Aquebogue through Greenport — so you can string two neighboring rooms without crossing the island.

Barn tasting room and vines at Paumanok Vineyards

01 · North Fork · Aquebogue

Paumanok Vineyards

The Massoud family has farmed this Aquebogue estate since 1983, and it still opens an afternoon gently: dry Chenin Blanc, a deck over the vines, and Adirondack chairs on the lawn from May to November.

The right first stop — serious pours, and a lawn chair to sit in between them.

Walk-in for seven or fewer; book weekends on Tock. No outside food. Dogs outdoors Monday through Friday only.

1074 Main Rd, Aquebogue, NY 11931
Vineyard rows at Ev&Em Vineyards in Laurel

02 · North Fork · Laurel

Ev&Em Vineyards

A renovated Laurel estate where the tasting is built like a meal: four wines with charcuterie on the Tasting Deck, or the longer sit-down in the Barrel Room.

Polished decks over the rows, and a pour that fills an evening instead of twenty minutes.

Walk-ins welcome, but weekend reservations matter. Tasting Deck and Upper Deck are 21+. Cap of 12.

3165 Main Rd, Laurel, NY 11948
Outdoor table with pizza and wine at Jamesport Vineyards

03 · North Fork · Jamesport

Jamesport Vineyards

Seated tastings for two to eight inside a 165-year-old barn, with Little Oak’s wood-fired pizza in the same building and Friday and Saturday service until 8.

Dinner and the tasting are the same stop, and Jazz in the Vines plays on summer Saturday evenings.

Reservations required. Closed Wednesday. Friday after 6 p.m. and all weekend are 21+, including infants. Pets banned.

1216 Main Rd, Jamesport, NY 11947
Vineyard aisle at Clovis Point in Jamesport

04 · North Fork · Jamesport

Clovis Point

A renovated 1920s potato barn looking over a small estate vineyard. Weekend seatings run 12–3 and 3:30–7, and the house caps a table at six.

Small and seated by design — buses and Main Road drop-offs get turned away at the door.

Reservations recommended; walk-ins if there is space. Service animals only.

1935 Main Rd, Jamesport, NY 11947
Cellar tanks at Terra Vite in Jamesport

05 · North Fork · Jamesport

Terra Vite

Table service with an Italian lean on Manor Lane: antipasto, panini, spritzes, and a patio over a few acres of vines.

Order a board, take the whole afternoon, and stay for the weekend set.

Reservations highly recommended. Closed Monday and Tuesday. General tables seat one to five.

250 Manor Ln, Jamesport, NY 11947
Barrel cellar tasting table at Macari Vineyards

06 · North Fork · Mattituck

Macari Vineyards

A biodynamic farm on the Sound where the seated five-wine flight is reservation-only at $40 and the lawn tables stay first-come. The Barrel Cellar version is $75.

An educator at the table rather than a bartender, and long rows to walk after the last pour.

Book ahead — five-day cancellation. No outside food. Leashed dogs on the lawn only, not indoors or on the covered deck.

150 Bergen Ave, Mattituck, NY 11952
Guest room at the Rose Hill Vineyards farmhouse inn

07 · North Fork · Mattituck

Rose Hill Vineyards

The old Shinn estate on Oregon Road: a quiet barn, patio tables, a farmhouse inn next door, and flights from $20 to $34.

Farm-barn calm well off the Main Road crush, with a Governor’s Cup Cabernet Sauvignon to sit with.

First-come; wine-club members may reserve. Max eight. Official: no buses, no bachelorette parties. Leashed dogs on the patio. No outside food.

2000 Oregon Rd, Mattituck, NY 11952
Vineyard rows at Castello di Borghese in Cutchogue

08 · North Fork · Cutchogue

Castello di Borghese

Long Island’s first vineyard, and still the least corporate: terracotta floors, old-world reds, and picnic blankets on the lawn outside.

One of the few rooms on this list that actually wants you to bring a picnic.

Walk-in for small groups; more than six must reserve. Sunday closes at 4. BYO picnic encouraged. No buses or limos.

17150 Middle Rd, Cutchogue, NY 11935
Patio and tasting barn at McCall Wines in Cutchogue

09 · North Fork · Cutchogue

McCall Wines

A working cattle farm with Pinot Noir, picnic tables set over the Merlot rows, and seasonal Burger Nights cooked from the estate’s own Charolais beef.

A 90-minute table with the light going down over the preserve behind it.

Tock reservations; walk-ins first-come. Max six on a general reservation. No limos or tour buses. Closed January and February.

22600 NY-25, Cutchogue, NY 11935
Barrel room at Pellegrini Vineyards

10 · North Fork · Cutchogue

Pellegrini Vineyards

A 1990s architectural showpiece in Cutchogue: fruit-driven North Fork reds poured in a calm courtyard room on wedding-quality grounds.

Serious Cabernet Franc in a cathedral-quiet room, with a courtyard to walk between glasses.

Open daily, typically 11–5. Walk-in bar for small parties. Groups of five, or any van, limo, or bus, need a reservation.

23005 Main Rd, Cutchogue, NY 11935
Vineyard rows at Suhru & Lieb on Oregon Road

11 · North Fork · Cutchogue

Lieb Cellars

Now Suhru & Lieb on Oregon Road, built around sparkling and still Pinot Blanc plus Suhru’s lesser-known grapes. Flights are $26, $28, and $36; the patio over the vines is open May through November.

Ninety minutes, seated, small plates, and a hard cap of eight at the table.

Reservations highly recommended on Tock. No buses, limos, or vans. The Library room is 21+. Leashed dogs on the patio only.

13050 Oregon Rd, Cutchogue, NY 11935
Aerial view of the vineyard at Sannino Vineyard

12 · North Fork · Cutchogue

Sannino Vineyard

A family boutique on County Road 48 with comparative tastings, a patio over the vines, Friday jazz from 8 to 10, and an agriturismo B&B on the same property.

The pour is a lesson for two, and the room you sleep in is a short walk away.

Walk-in for six or fewer; reservations encouraged. No pets. Last pour 30 minutes before close. Hours are posted inconsistently — confirm.

15975 County Rd 48, Cutchogue, NY 11935
Coffee Pot Cellars tasting room and garden in Cutchogue

13 · North Fork · Cutchogue

Coffee Pot Cellars

A tiny roadside room hosted by winemaker Adam Suprenant and jam-maker Laura Klahre. Most Sundays include a winemaker tasting at no extra charge.

You end up in conversation with the people who made the wine.

Walk-ins always welcome. Closed Tuesday through Thursday. Picnic outside; no food at the bar.

31855 Main Rd, Cutchogue, NY 11935
Outdoor lounge at Peconic Bay Vineyards

14 · North Fork · Cutchogue

Peconic Bay Vineyards

A 1979 Cutchogue estate reopened in 2024 as Krissie’s room: a garden, fire pits, and picnics you can book among the vines.

Reserve the picnic, then let the Friday-to-Sunday music carry the rest of the afternoon.

Walk-in seating is first-come. The operator changed in 2024 — confirm the pour list, food, and pets on Tock. No party decorations.

31320 Main Rd, Cutchogue, NY 11935
Aerial view of the Bedell Cellars tasting house and vineyard

15 · North Fork · Cutchogue

Bedell Cellars

The benchmark Cutchogue estate — art labels, a covered patio over the vines, flights around $28 to $32, and a bookable couples package or cellar tour.

A sunset porch, and a tasting that stretches to dinner length without anyone rushing you.

Walk-in for 15 or fewer. Cheese and charcuterie on site; no outside food.

36225 Main Rd, Cutchogue, NY 11935
Italianate villa and lawn at Raphael in Peconic

16 · North Fork · Peconic

Raphael

A Tuscan-style villa on Main Road with a veranda, pizza, and a Merlot-first list; a 2024 visitor report put the premium flight at about $35 for four.

Big-room romance — high ceilings, a long lawn, and a glass any time after noon.

Open from noon daily. Walk-in for small parties; eight or more need a reservation package. Adults 21 and older. Weddings can close the room — check the calendar.

39390 NY-25, Peconic, NY 11958
Tasting room at Chronicle Wines on Peconic Lane

17 · North Fork · Peconic

Chronicle Wines / Peconic Cellar Door

A storefront on Peconic Lane pouring five women-led New York labels — orange wine, pét-nat, canned spritzers — plus a private winemaker tasting for two to four.

The most talkative list on the fork, in a room that seats almost nobody.

Walk-in for five or fewer. Current listings show closed Tuesday and Wednesday — confirm hours before you drive out.

2885 Peconic Ln, Peconic, NY 11958
Sparkling Pointe tasting house seen from the vineyard

18 · North Fork · Southold

Sparkling Pointe

Méthode champenoise and nothing else — Pinot Noir, Pinot Meunier, and Chardonnay — poured as table service in a sit-down Tasting House, with caviar pairings if you want them.

The bubbles date: flutes, a served table, and a lawn kept for looking at.

Reservations recommended on Resy; general bookings cap at six. No pets, no BYO, and no unbooked party bus.

39750 County Rd 48, Southold, NY 11971
Gravel garden patio at Croteaux Vineyards in Southold

19 · North Fork · Southold

Croteaux Vineyards

America’s rosé-only estate: a pebbled courtyard under white umbrellas between 18th-century barns, open daily 12–6 in season.

Provençal pink in a garden built for lingering — no reservations, just a table when one opens.

First-come, max eight, and they will not split a larger party. No shuttles, buses, limos, or South Harbor drop-offs. Leashed dogs outdoors. Closed in winter.

1450 South Harbor Rd, Southold, NY 11971
Fire-pit lounge at Mattebella Vineyards

20 · North Fork · Southold

Mattebella Vineyards

Sit-down service in a converted barn cottage among roses and fig trees, with a $38 vineyard tour and tasting from April through November.

Old-world wines at your own table, in a garden that keeps the volume down.

Weekend reservations required. No pets. No outside food. Winter is often Friday through Sunday only; the stone driveway can close in snow.

46005 NY-25, Southold, NY 11971
Red tasting barn at One Woman Wines in Southold

21 · North Fork · Southold

One Woman Wines & Vineyards

Claudia Purita’s Southold farm: Grüner Veltliner, a new barn, a café with tinned fish and Italian coffee, and Friday jazz at The Half Note.

Unhurried and personal — the person pouring is usually the person who made it.

Historically no groups over six and no limos. The property was listed for sale in 2026 and the tasting room has stayed open — call for hours.

5195 Old North Rd, Southold, NY 11971
Kontokosta Winery at sunset on the Greenport bluff

22 · North Fork · Greenport

Kontokosta Winery

A modern room on a Greenport bluff with the best Long Island Sound view on the trail — Cabernet Franc, Anemometer blends, and meadow light. Walk-ins, first-come, daily 11–5.

The water does the work, and dinner in Greenport village is a few minutes west.

Reservations are not necessary. Limousines, buses, and vans are not permitted. No outside food. No pets. No beach access.

825 North Rd, Greenport, NY 11944

South Fork & the Hamptons

Treat these as their own day. The drive from Cutchogue to Sagaponack is not a between-tasting hop.

Patio overlooking the vineyard at Wölffer Estate in Sagaponack

23 · South Fork · Sagaponack

Wölffer Estate

The Sagaponack estate behind Summer in a Bottle. The seated Tasting Room is on Sagg Road; the walk-up Wine Stand on Montauk Highway is the sunset stop.

Hamptons vineyard light without the drive out to the North Fork.

Book the Tasting Room on Tock. Two addresses — if a wedding closes the room, use the Wine Stand. No dogs. Guests 18 and under count toward the reservation.

139 Sagg Rd, Sagaponack, NY 11962
Outdoor tasting table at Channing Daughters in Bridgehampton

24 · South Fork · Bridgehampton

Channing Daughters Winery

A Bridgehampton sculpture garden planted to Friulian grapes, pouring orange wine and vermouth at tables that run 75 to 90 minutes.

Saturday evenings stretch to dark with food trucks — Hamptons scenery at an artist’s pace.

Daily 11–6. Walk-ins fine; six or more must reserve. Saturday carries a small per-person reservation fee. No pets. No outside food.

1927 Scuttle Hole Rd, Bridgehampton, NY 11932

How to plan the day

Date night FAQ

Do we need a reservation for a date-night winery on Long Island?

On a summer weekend, plan on it for the seated rooms. Macari, Jamesport Vineyards, and Mattebella require a booking; Lieb, Terra Vite, Sparkling Pointe, and Wölffer’s Tasting Room all strongly recommend one. Walk-in stays realistic at Kontokosta, where reservations are not necessary, at Croteaux, which takes none at all, and at Coffee Pot Cellars, Chronicle for five or fewer, Borghese for six or fewer, and Bedell for fifteen or fewer.

How much does a Long Island wine tasting cost for two?

A seated flight on this list generally runs from the low $20s to the low $40s a person. Rose Hill is $20 to $34, Lieb pours $26, $28, and $36 flights, Bedell runs about $28 to $32, and Macari’s seasonal five-wine flight is $40 with the Barrel Cellar experience at $75. Most of these houses sell cheese and charcuterie and do not allow outside food, so budget for the board too.

Is the North Fork or the South Fork better for a winery date?

The North Fork has the density — you can pair two neighboring tasting rooms without a long drive, and 22 of these 24 estates are there. The South Fork is a separate day: Wölffer Estate in Sagaponack, where the Sagg Road Tasting Room is the seated option and the Montauk Highway Wine Stand is the sunset one, and Channing Daughters in Bridgehampton, where tables run 75 to 90 minutes.

Which Long Island wineries are quietest for a couple?

The small rooms, and most of them cap the table to stay that way. Chronicle takes five, Clovis Point and McCall six, Lieb, Rose Hill, and Croteaux eight. Coffee Pot Cellars is a roadside room where the winemaker often pours. Kontokosta is calm because of the Long Island Sound rather than its size, and Sparkling Pointe is formal table service, not a lawn party.

Which of these wineries turn away limos and party buses?

Most of them, which is exactly why they are here. Lieb takes no buses, limos, or vans, McCall no limos or tour buses, Kontokosta permits none of the three, Borghese allows neither buses nor limos, Croteaux refuses shuttles, buses, and South Harbor drop-offs, Rose Hill posts a no on buses and bachelorette parties, and Sparkling Pointe will not seat an unbooked party bus. If you hired a car, confirm the house rule first — or use the group outings list instead.

Can we bring a picnic or a dog?

Rarely, on both counts. Borghese still encourages a BYO picnic and Peconic Bay sells a bookable picnic among the vines, but most of these rooms allow no outside food. Dogs are welcome outdoors at Macari on the lawn, Rose Hill on the patio, and Croteaux in the garden, and banned at Kontokosta, Sparkling Pointe, Mattebella, Sannino, Channing Daughters, and Wölffer, with Clovis Point taking service animals only.

What is the best time of year for a winery date?

May through November, when the outdoor rooms are open: Paumanok sets Adirondack chairs on the lawn, Lieb opens the patio over the vines, and Croteaux runs its garden from April into late November. Winter thins the list — Croteaux closes, McCall shuts for January and February, and Mattebella often drops to Friday through Sunday.